Wednesday, March 19, 2014

:: YAN International Women's Day Essay Contest Winners!! ::

Happy(belated)International Women’s Day!!

In the last two week I have held about four classes (including 2 make up classes) focusing on International Women’s Day, which was March 8th. In these lessons we started by watching five short videos from a series called "Why Women Count". You can find the series HERE on YouTube. We specifically focused on Ghana, Sierra Leone, Zimbabwe, Nigeria and Uganda.

For the Government High School in Buea Town I chose 3 students who had a tie for 2nd place and 1 student for 1st place. At the Biligual Grammar School in Molyko I have two classes (the regular club and the advanced class) therefore two 1st place winners and respectively a 3 way tie and a 2 way tie for 2nd place.

Prizes comprised of a variety of school supplies like notebooks, pens, pencils, etc were given at the assembly. 

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See what the winners have to say below:
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School: Government High School - Buea Town
Winner: Yatuh Ketline
Class: Lower 6

Yatuh Ketline Of Government High School Buea Town
Chosen Essay Questions:
1. Why is it important for a woman to be empowered and able to make her own decisions
2. What are some other ways men, women, girls and boys around the world can advocate for women and other causes?
3. How does the material we covered today in class relate to the work YAN does?

To empower means to make someone feel that he/she has control over their life and their work. Empowerment is to formally give a person or an organization the legal authority to do something. Empowering women means empowering her family and in turn her community which translates a powerful force that can change the world in significant positive ways. Also, letting a woman to make decisions brings more equality to mankind. It balances the strengths and weaknesses of men and women to compliment each other. If the world were run by men and women in unity, how awesome e it would be.
            It is important for a woman to be empowered politically, this is holding or occupying positions in government. When she is there, she will make women benefit form it. She will do everything in her power to see that women are taken care of, they are provided with their essential needs. If this happens, there is going to be peace and harmony in the world.
            It is also important to empower a woman economically. This is done through loans given to them or opening up business centers. When a woman is economically stable, she makes decisions for herself and the family. She will be able to take care of her children and provide for her family in the times of need or when the man is financially unstable. This will reduce the rate of depression, poverty and hardship in out contemporary society.
            It is also very important when a woman is empowered morally. When she is no being beaten, neglected, or forced into early marriages, but instead, sent to school in full term, hher self esteem will no be damaged and she is going to manage her home in an advanced way. She will be able to bring up her children in an upright manner making them to be good and better citizens

There are ways in which men, women, boys and girls can advocate for women. Firstly, the opening of ministries like the Ministry of Women’s’ Empowerment and the Family headed by Marie-Therese Abena Oncloua. This ministry see in it that, the problems and struggles of women are taken into consideration and finding lasting solutions. This helps to make the women known  and advocacy can be carried out through this media.
            Another way is by proclaiming days like International Women’s Day which is set out to celebrate the economic, political and social achievements of women. This is another way of advocate because awareness is created on the relevance and importance of a women in out society.
            Lastly, setting up radio campaigns is another way. On the radio, we can sensitize woman and children on the importance of mainlining women's rights leading to gender equality and unity.

The material we covered in class related to the work we do in YAN. The primary aim of YA is creating awareness to the public on problems affecting our communities and the country at large. In YAN, we identify a problem that’s affecting our society. In the movies, we identified problems. We discovered that in all the movies, the prominent problem is that women are violate, suppressed and no counted.
            In YAN, after identifying the problem, we find out what the world has to chare with us concerning that problem (researching our specific topic). In the movies we watched, the problem has been identified and women form Nigeria, Zimbabwe, Uganda, Sierra Leone and Ghana shared their thoughts and experiences on the problem.
In YAN, after knowing what the world's opinions are about your problem identified, you then advocate. Sensitize the people on the possible preventions, ways to reduce or completely eradicate the problem. In the movies, we saw how individuals and organizations have come up to put an end or reduce the rate in which women are violated and minimized.

To conclude, from the assessment above, we can say that it is very important to empower a woman in economic, political and social domains. This is going to promote gender equality, harmony and unity in out contemporary society. 
 
“Women rise up and make the men to count you”
-Yatuh Ketline


Receiving her prize at the General Assembly
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School: Bilingual Grammar School - Lycee Molyko
Winner: Muluh Victory
Class: Lower 6
Chosen Essay Questions:
1. What is gender quality and how can this improve living conditions in our community and around the world?
2. Why is it important for a women to be empowered and able to make her own decisions?
3. What are some other ways men, women, girls and boys around the world can advocate for women?

Women are mothers of the world and supposed to be considered as the most important people in the world today because there is no thing like a mothers love for the child. If women are allowed to express themselves as men do in the world today that is gender equality. We will see a great impact in the worlds development. I there was gender equality in the society and around the world today, there will be low rate of infant mortality since women would be seen to school and they will be taught on how to bring up their children and how to care for them. Reduction in prostitution since women will be educated so they will know the implications of prostitution like contraction of diseases such as AIDS, syphilis, gonorrhea and other sexually transmitted diseases. And the rate which women are being depressed and so they will take care of themselves and their children. The women's talents would be exposed which will improve on the income of the country. Like they say, “What a man can do a woman can do better.”. And it is true anywhere in the world today. Gender quality will leave do an increase in women’s life span, reduce the rate of orphans on the streets and also the rate of teenage pregnancy since women would have the right of education like men and also reduce the world’s starvation especially in Asia and Africa. Also, rape victims will be able to defend themselves and it will reduce the rate of women being raped every day throughout the world.

Women face a lot of difficulties as being considered or accepted in the society today as being important even though they have ideas that change the world and impact their families. Women should be appreciated and empowered because they have a lot to offer to the world to make it a better place. If women are empowered and allowed to make their own decisions in education and marriages respectively they will gain knowledge on how to take care of their children, be independent and to contribute to the development of the country. And they will be happy about themselves and it will not only make the family happy but the world for they say, “When the mother is happy the whole family will be happy”. Some women who have been empowered not only in Africa but throughout the world believe that women should have a say in the world today like the presidents of some African counties such as Ruth Sando Perry the first African lady president in Liberia and Joyce Banda the president of Malawi. Both are great examples of empowered women who have ruled their counties very well showing that women are good leaders if they are given a chance. When women are empowered they can change who their children become by encouraging them to fight for their rights and their future because women change the thinking capacities of their children. So, women should be empowered because the growth of the world depends on them.

In order to change the mentality of the society about women and also to advocate for women in the world in the world today as men of the society is to appreciate and give them a change to express themselves in anyway they can. Give them the respect they deserve because we were brought into this world by a woman and as boys and girls we should give them respect and honor them by all means that we can. Because not for them we wouldn’t be in the world today.

“Women have more and more to offer the world – more than we think. We should just give them a chance to express themselves and we shall see the outcome of it all. “
-Muluh Victory

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School: Bilingual Grammar School - Lycee Molyko (Advanced YAN Class)
Winner: Henry Ekema
Class: Form 4

 
Chosen Essay Questions:
1. What is gender quality and how can this improve living conditions in our community and around the world?
2. Why is it important for a women to be empowered and able to make her own decisions?
3.  What are the biggest struggles for the women/girls of Cameroon and how can this be overcome?

When people talk of gender equality they will think of gender inequality because the rights of both male and female children are not the same. With gender equality in our community many things will be changed. The living condition will be change because both the children will have right over their properties and education to both female and male children. It will reduce the rate of unemployment, arm robbery, prostitution and unwanted pregnancy in our community because they will be educated and have right over their properties. It would improve the living standards of the community and the world.

It is good for a woman to be empowered because there are some houses where the women has no say in what they do. She will take instructions and carry it out carefully and well cone. The women has to be empowered because she has to know her rights and duties. Some of the rights and duties include: the right to own properties, the right to decide what she wants, education, government facilities and she has the right to work in the public services. Her duties are to take care of her children, to cook for her family, to help the man in bringing up the children and so on. The woman also has the right to make her own decisions because there are some things one to the woman which does not please her like forced child bearing, rape, killing them as sacrifices, forced marriages and forced prostitution. Women wan to make decisions on their own. She will make decisions that please her so that she will not accuse anyone or say someone is that cause of her misfortune. The woman will know the amount of children to have. They should also make decisions to the type of job they want to have and where she wants to go and who she wants to marry.

The biggest struggle in Cameroon in violence, disrespect, being uneducated and unemployment. When the women does not want to have sex, they will use violence on her to have it. Some men would even beat them up because they have refused to do it. Like the women in Zimbabwe where when she gave birth, her husband beat her up saying the child was not his and finally he beat her up with and axe making the woman to leave the house. The husband also choked her daughter man time cause she was a woman. The women is also disrespected in general because they are women. Some are insulted but everyone with children and adults which is not good.
The women being uneducated because they will say woman’s place is in the kitchen. Like in some areas they will say “they are educating the women for what?” if she would get married to another family and it will be the husband who controls the money and her.
There is a high rate of unemployment because the women are not educate and so they cannot get a job and this may lead to poverty and proposition.

"Some possible solutions are: creating seminars for women; allowing women to have education and employment; allowing the women to make their own decisions; allowing the women to own property; the women should be respected and also; people should not inflict violence on them."
-Henry Ekema


Monday, March 10, 2014

My First Year in Cameroon :: The Good, The Bad, The Ridiculous//Awesome

Today makes ONE YEAR since my arrival in Cameroon, Africa.
1 year-12 months-52 weeks-365 days
8,765 hours or 525,949 minutes.

The Good: The cost of living in Cameroon is SOO cheap and SOO fresh!- I can buy a massive juice fresh pineapple for 150fcfa or 25cents. 4 mangoes (in season) or 4 bananas just picked off the tree for 100fcfa (20cents).



The Bad: Salary here is a joke. That is if people even get paid! Sometimes people work for months without salary and both government jobs and private jobs. Even when they do get paid, it's close to nothing. It is not possible to pay rent, pay bills, feed your children, send them to school with books and supplies, have a tiny bit to buy a bottle of beer every now and again AND save. It's just not possible. It's incredibly sad to see people who are intelligent, hard working and capable struggle like this. Even me, its why I have to leave...the salary is just too low I cant afford to live here.

The Awesome: I am learning Pidgin-English!! What is this you ask!? Well, it's more useful than one might imagine... This "language" is spoken by more than 80 million people world wide. I say "language" because it varies by the location - but a lot of the structure more or less stays the same, it's mostly the vocabulary that changes. Surprisingly, I am picking up on this quite well. I would say after one year I am at or beyond my proficiency in French. At first, I was so confused why educated people who knew English would speak this language amongst each other (I assumed it was for the illiterate) but after inquiring and getting the response, "It just flows" I know understand...ei di flow. This can help me get jobs all over West Africa!! Sierra Leone, Ghana, Nigeria, The Gambia, Liberia and of course Cameroon. Generally, if they dont speak French, they speak Pidgin :) Or in some places, like Sierra Leone, they call it Creole. Here in Cameroon, Pidgin is a mixture of English, French and local dialects! Pidgin varies even depending on the area you are in within the Southwest and Northwest regions.

The Bad: Not only do I stick out like a sore thumb being a 'whiteman' here in Cameroon (and most of Africa for that matter), there are also several stereotypes come along with being a "whiteman". At first you get quite offended when everyone says "you are white, you have money." but after you realize the culture and how we as westerners are perceived...you can't really get that upset. So people think you are rich and have a ton of money. Therefore, people (not everyone) are constantly asking you for things, telling you how bad their life is, trying to make you pay more, or just flat out saying "take me to your country" or "marry me (or my brother)" or "I love you" or heaps of random other phrases.

The Ridiculous: After living in Ndejje Village, Uganda -- I feel like I am in a first world nation. Actually. Even if the power does go out and I have no running water ever now and again.

The Awesome: I have mastered bucket baths. Believe me, there is a technique and I am proud to say I know it very well.

The Bad: I might have taken a few years off of my life. The amount of oil (red palm oil, ground nut oil and regular palm oil) that the put into food is actually insane. I've seen meals being prepared: at the end they take a liter of palm oil and stir it in. When they serve things at restaurants (or even in homes) you can tip the place and watch the oil pour (yes, pour) off the plate. When the food is sitting in the pot after its finished, you can literally spoon out oil that has risen to the top of the food and pooled in different sections. Plus, they love sugar! They love sugar so much that they saturate their salads (avocado, onion and tomatoes) with condensed milk and most people take minimum 4 sugar in their tea/coffee which already has condensed milk. God help me. 

The Ridiculous: People think that just because I can sit on the floor with my legs crossed that I am Muslim.

The Bad: There are mice and cockroaches all over my house. No, I am not a dirty person. Everyone has them. I have one friend who actually has named two mice that are in her house.

Here I am, shoe in hand, going after a mouse!!


The Good: I have gotten really good at killing the mice with shoes. It worked better when Monica and I were living together because we sort of tag-teamed them and trapped them in but I still manage without her.

The Ridiculous: A friend and I once killed an entire family (of mice). I thought there was just one but one turned into two, two turned into four.

Goodbye family of mice that kept nibbling into my food!
The Good: I LIVE IN BUEA - CAN DRINK TAP WATER!!! HOORAY!!!

The Ridiculous: I used the pumpkin spice coffee creamer that my sister sent me in a care package with my instant coffee and a bit of instant milk and it was like heaven in a cup. I felt like I was getting a Pumpkin Spice Late from some small locally owned organic coffee shop in Humboldt.


The Good: After a year, I am comfortable doing 99.9% of things here along. I know where things are. I know the prices. I know how to talk to people. I know how to be culturally sensitive. And one awesome part: everyone (that is an obvious exaggeration) knows me too!

The Good: Happy Sunday! Sunday is like a weekly holiday here. Nearly everything is close (at least until late afternoon). Everyone wears their traditional clothing and most people attend church and/or their njangi meeting. People are so cheerful and always greet by saying "Happy Sunday" and then you can reply "Same to you." or my favorite, "Happy! Happy!" This is usually a popular phone calling day (see below).

The Awesome: Calling just to greet. At first, I was so confused and honestly a bit annoyed with people/friends/acquaintances who called me just to say HI and see how I was doing. The conversations were honestly like 30sec-1min long and had no purpose or point other than salutations. But now, I call to do the same thing - usually on Sunday! People are so happy and so grateful. I can have a full conversation with a friend, greet her whole family, check on how everything in her life is going and finish within 1min. I literally scroll through my phonebook to call people that I havent seen or talked to in a while. People do the same to me. Its really nice.

The Bad: I care less about littering and artificial and/or toxic GMO foods. In fact, as much as I hate to admit this I cant deny... I have littered here.

The Awesome: I live in a country where there are over 260 different ethnic groups/clans. I've been able to witness some amazingly awesome traditional events!!
Malleh Dance aka Elephant Dance
Pala Pala Wrestling
Witnessing some traditional dances
A Bayangi Juju
The Ridiculous: Everyone ones to adopt you into their tribe/clan so they give you a traditional name... its so difficult to remember them all! So far:
Bayangi name = Nsunsu (pronounced: nn sue sue)
Bakossi name = Ebude Mbulle (pronounced: ay boo day mm boolay)
Bamenda name: Manka (pronounced: ma n ka)
Ibo* name: Ijeoma (pronounced: ee jee oma)
*Ibo is a tribe in Nigera but since they boarder Cameroon there are many who live here now.

The Awesome: I have a solid friend and family base here. I've been to white weddings, court weddings, traditional weddings, funerals, first communions, birthday parties, graduation parties, memorials and more. I don't know what I would do without them and I dont know what I will do when I leave.

small pikin dem
So it has been one full year. A year I will never forget. I have exactly 16 weeks or 112 days until I leave Buea, my new home. It's a frighting thought. An inevitable event, which I always knew was coming. But to have the date set. To actually be purchasing the ticket makes it much more real, and much more sad. Of course I am happy to see my family, go home, start grad school, etc -- but I love my life here. I love my friends. I love my work. I love my students. It's amusing to me to think that some 'volunteers' come for 2 weeks or 2 months and then they leave and never look back. Then here I am dreading my departure in 4 full months, longer than the time some people spend here. I have already began planning my 'send off' party!! Anyways, I am looking forward to getting back stateside. I know the transition will be difficult but I am ready to move onto the next stage...hopefully going back to school at SIT Graduate Institute in Vermont.


Saturday, March 1, 2014

Things Fall Apart :: A Book Review


This is the book I read - a borrowed photocopied version from the
streets of Freetown, Sierra Leone.
This is the original cover from 1958.

"Things Fall Apart" by Chinua Achebe
with Introduction and Notes by Aigboje Higo.

Genre: Historical fiction, based on true events.
First Publishing Date: 1958
Country of Origin: Nigeria

“The white man is very clever. He came quietly and peaceably with his religion. We were amused at his foolishness and allowed him to stay. Now he has won our brothers, and our clan can no longer act like one. He has put a knife on the things that held us together and we have fallen apart. 
- Chapter 20

This book is an absolute African classic. Chinua Achebe is one of the most popular novelist to come out of Africa and his work is world renown. Things Fall Apart take place in lower Nigeria in the 1890s and sketches a picture of the historic clash between Nigeria’s white colonial government and the traditional culture of the indigenous Igbo people. Achebe has become renowned throughout the world as a father of modern African literature and had the aims of giving the reader fuller understanding of the Igbo people and, in so doing, giving voice to an underrepresented and exploited since the story was only told from the whiteman's prespective.

The main character in the book, Okonkwo, is introduced to the reader immediately as a very respected and rich warrior of the Umuofia clan. This clan is part of alower Nigerian tribe that is part of a group of nine  separate yet connected villages. His father, Unoka, who has passed away was the total opposite and it kills him inside. He was a coward and very poor – this drove Okonkwo to never settle for anything other than the very best. His eldest is a boy of 12 years named Nwoye. Okonkwo is worried his son will be lazy and end up like his father, thoughts like this consume his conscious at times and it drives him to  be an extremely strict and heartless father. Okonkwo has three wives and several children. 

The story goes on rapidly, moving from one thing to another as Achebe dives deeper into the main characters and the plot of the story. The way this man writes is unreal. For someone like myself, who loves to learn about the way other people thinks, live, beliefs, culture, traditions, worship etc, I find this book extraordinarily descriptive. He says so much in so few words. You almost feel like at times it’s a anthropological historical book. I loved that part! There is one time, where a man has brought Okonkwo several pots of palm wine for some sort of celebration or just a nice jester. As tradition Okonkwo calls in his wives to try the wine. In the order that each of them were married (the first wife then second and lastly third), they all received just one drink of wine from Okonkwo’s calabash. Each wife knelt as she accepted and left the room immediately after trying it. He also describes the   importance of giving thanks to their ancestors and their different gods and goddesses. Like Ani for example, the earth goddess. To give thanks to Ani there is an annual “Feast of the New Yam” before every harvest. It’s believe that this must be preformed otherwise the harvest will not be good.  

Suddenly, the story takes 180 and Okonkwo has been kicked out of his clan due to serious traditional rules. No one wanted to see him go, but it was the way of the land. He started from scratch in his Mother’s homeland. This is when the first rumors of Whiteman was spread throughout the land. People were not concerned at this point. But, sooner or later, after they allowed them to build churches on their land and live amongst them – all the clans realized their were in grave danger. Soon, clans start falling apart as the Whiteman gains more and more control. Soon they bring in their own government from Britain which prosecutes the Igbo people for things the whiteman has deemed ‘unlawful’ but things they have done their entire lives. Okonkwo is finally allowed back in his village after 7 years of exile. He is shocked at bitter about the changes he sees and mostly the passivity of his brothers. Being who he is, he stood up to one of the whitemen and ended up killing him believing that his brothers would join in and they would go to war to defend their land. No one joined him. When the  British District Attorney of that area came to sentence Okonkwo to death………. You will just have to read it to find out the rest!!

I recommend this book for several reasons: 

1. How many of you guys have read a book about Africa BY and African? 

2. Achebe writes eloquently and brings to life the way these people lives. Its always healthy for people to step outside of their own life and their own habits to see the way others see things. You know, walk a mile in their shoes. 

3. It’s short. Like not a couple pages short, but seriously short for such an epic story. You can finish it in one day. Or if you are busy, like seriously busy, a week. 


Buy it here!! 

Starting at only ONE PENNY for a used copy!